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Tuesday, May 17, 2011
Saturday, May 14, 2011
I may not be..
I may not be Close with All of my family, But at least I try. I recently Had some fallout's with my some family. The first being my cousin, Yeah I get it Sam our family is not perfect but is it really worth cutting all of your ties because of something you heard. In all reality our family could care less about who you date, what her age is or her skin color none of it matters. In the long run your going to need us even if you like it or not, That is what your family is for. I am sorry for the things I said on the phone But that is my mother it comes natural. Just so you know I am still here for you.
Talk about a crappy night not even within an hour my sister calls to tell me that I am no longer in her or my 4 nephews and nieces lives. Oh also that I have no place in giving advice because I am 20 years old not married and living with a man.All because I gave some advice over Facebook about how fighting is never the answer. No I did not put my nephew down keep in mind the kid who he is wanting to fight is someone who put him in a neck brace In a different fight. coming from experience fighting back does nothing but escalate your problems with not only the person your fighting with but also the person your fighting withes friends and so on. Things will only escalate and you will lose a lot of friends. Being 14 everything so much more dramatic at that age.So back to the phone call. My sister being the person she is who strives off of complete utter chaos of course takes the conversation to yelling and screaming talk about being back in high school. After making her decision Or should I say making a decision for her kids to completely remove me from there lives. the phone call ends in "your 20 years old and living with a man". Ah this is where my blood boils but of course Dulce being Dulce hangs up. out of my anger I text her telling her she is very mature and that having a civilized conversation once in awhile give great turn outs. Her response was "leave my kids alone I will not allow anyone to tell my kids anything,lose my number my kids numbers.u r nothing to me or them" but of course I have to throw my last words in there I need to feel like I have some power after such a low blow I reply with. " When they are older and have no family left it will all be on you dear.have fun with that,best of luck". Yeah I shouldn't have said it but we all do things out of anger.What upsets me so much is that she is constantly removing family from her kids because of her own emotions. it's sad that not even there grandma can come to visit without a dramatic ordeal taking place. Or that grandpa can't visit because it always becomes a fight with my dad and her. The constant remarks that I am stuck up because I live my life how I want to. If anyone in this whole thing has no right giving advice would be herself not only that you had your first child at what 15? without being married?! ha My point is think for your self and try and understand that family other then mom and dad and brother and sisters are a vital part of your children's life.
Talk about a crappy night not even within an hour my sister calls to tell me that I am no longer in her or my 4 nephews and nieces lives. Oh also that I have no place in giving advice because I am 20 years old not married and living with a man.All because I gave some advice over Facebook about how fighting is never the answer. No I did not put my nephew down keep in mind the kid who he is wanting to fight is someone who put him in a neck brace In a different fight. coming from experience fighting back does nothing but escalate your problems with not only the person your fighting with but also the person your fighting withes friends and so on. Things will only escalate and you will lose a lot of friends. Being 14 everything so much more dramatic at that age.So back to the phone call. My sister being the person she is who strives off of complete utter chaos of course takes the conversation to yelling and screaming talk about being back in high school. After making her decision Or should I say making a decision for her kids to completely remove me from there lives. the phone call ends in "your 20 years old and living with a man". Ah this is where my blood boils but of course Dulce being Dulce hangs up. out of my anger I text her telling her she is very mature and that having a civilized conversation once in awhile give great turn outs. Her response was "leave my kids alone I will not allow anyone to tell my kids anything,lose my number my kids numbers.u r nothing to me or them" but of course I have to throw my last words in there I need to feel like I have some power after such a low blow I reply with. " When they are older and have no family left it will all be on you dear.have fun with that,best of luck". Yeah I shouldn't have said it but we all do things out of anger.What upsets me so much is that she is constantly removing family from her kids because of her own emotions. it's sad that not even there grandma can come to visit without a dramatic ordeal taking place. Or that grandpa can't visit because it always becomes a fight with my dad and her. The constant remarks that I am stuck up because I live my life how I want to. If anyone in this whole thing has no right giving advice would be herself not only that you had your first child at what 15? without being married?! ha My point is think for your self and try and understand that family other then mom and dad and brother and sisters are a vital part of your children's life.
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